ian is full of bull.

i'm insanely bored. gonna bullshit now. hear ye hear ye:

ok i think everyone has an in-built receptor/transmitter kinda thing. also known and hence forth known as: senses and body language respectively.

when people feel an attraction to someone, they will constantly give off positive signals through body language and be extremely positive around people they are attracted to. meanwhile, their senses will be attuned to pick up similar positive body language from their source of attraction.

say: A likes B. A displays positive body language while waiting to sense B's replies. B reciprocates. all is good. life is good. and they live happily ever after.
say: B does not reciprocate. A keeps trying. nothing happens. A will stop. tiring la. trust me, it's very tiring to be so positive for so long.
say: B realises then, B likes A. B decides to reciprocate after A stops. too late. A's too tired to do anything. probably A doesn't give a damn anymore. A kena own already. kena own = feels played. so nothing happens either.

what i'm trying to say is: when there is an attraction, positive body language will be displayed. but only for a time period. how long or short depends on the individual person. for a relationship to start out, both must like each other at the same time period. it's almost impossible for people to like others for an indefinite time period. simply cos it's really very very tiring. after the time period has passed, the attraction turns down into a normal friendship. rather platonic stuff. so the relationship wouldn't work out. even if the other side decides to up the tempo.

*trick* a trick here, is to play hard to get. it's a risky manouvre. it can drive the other side crazy for more. cos some humans are sadist and masochist by nature, they like pain and challenges(don't take my word for it. rmbr: ian is full of bull). then the time period will be lengthened. giving you more time to react(hopefully).
on the contrary, it can also drive the other side to leave. cos humans are lazy asses by nature, they don't like to overwork themselves. then the time period will immediately vanish. *poof*

*trick* additional trick. you don't like someone? just say NO all the way. everything also 'NO'. sooner or later(hopefully sooner, but some people have great perseverence), even the dumbest person will get it. to them, even getting to mars would be easier than getting to you.

ok ian has done with his crap. thanks for the audience. heading out now. ciao my friends.