intruders

the air above your shoulders, the air between your arms and your body, the air around your face.

these constitute what i call, "personal space". do not, in any case put your hand, feet, face or any part of your body in my "personal space". i think most people will find it extremely irritating. if you try to touch me. i call that "test water" u either get a sense of agreement, or a cold icy skin to get me started in giving you the "look"

if you think we're close. come and test water with me.

or you can do ian's infamous "taptap"
the physical contact is so minimal, yet so repetitive you cant help but get irritated.
u feel no warmth, just a subtle way of getting attention without using the voice.

using the eyes as a communication tool is a skill lost on many people.
it gives you away for sure. but nothing can be more sincere than a glint in your iris.






better communication. better people.