what's up with everyone saying they're losers with girls. come on. you're not a loser if you have like, so many so many girls around you. pls. and knowing you dudes, and you knowing your own damn selves you know you're no losers.

why call yourself losers? just because you have no girl? girls, are not worth having as girlfriends if you don't feel that chemistry with them. girls, are not worth having if they don't give a damn about you. so, if there's no one that fits the above, you don't have to have girls. shaun, i think the term you're finding is 'fling', to replace 'M-O Buddies'. what you all want are flings. and my friends, you won't get any flings if the girl doesn't wanna 'fling'.

i'm fine now being single(anybody wanna have a fling? haha.), i don't really need a girlfriend now and i'm not actively searching. ok, that sounded a little gay. hur. if she comes along then..she'll come along if not i'm fine. having said that, don't go round having flings when you know they want something more steady. imagine or think about a time when this would happen, feel how screwed up that is. haha, i feel so morally upright now when i know i'm not.

alright alright, my topic for today is obviously on us and girls so, i'll just carry on then. having had a nice discussion with my army mates over lunch just that day, we all realise that most guys are innately, pricks. haha. yeah, think about the last time u thought that someone's girl was hot and you wanted her. or when u think someone is going after this girl and suddenly you have the hots for her, only to back off when u realise you're the only one going for her? a few girls come to mind? you're not the only one guys. guys have this, predatory instinct, like a thrill for the hunt, the love for a competition. your adrenaline start pumping all over when you see a chance to compete with another male specimen. the feeling you get when you 'win' him is great. you have showed that you're better than him. more worthy. but are you really? maybe. maybe not. you're just being, male. (i see guys laughing, i see girls bringing out the knives.) don't worry girls out there! most guys do come to their senses after being knocked head over heels by that special lady and find 'her' who they are really interested in. in the end, if you don't really feel for her, then don't lead her on. actually, i'm not really a pro on this, i'm just giving my 2c worth.

anyway, i have a field camp starting up this sunday right till next saturday! so that means i won't be out anytime soon. till next week!

jianhong's friend Tan Z Y
BMTC Sch 1
Bravo Company
Platoon 3 Commander

(jianhong's friend tan z y is currently just living out his army days. he yearns to go to uni though he can't stop thinking about the problem of being permanently broke when SAF stops paying him. he enjoys both male and female company, especially pretty ones so don't be shy(males need not apply). he thinks he might enjoy flings but doesn't see any in the near future. he also has an irritating habit of talking too much crap.)