learnt through the hard way

whatever choice we make in life, is solely our responsibility. an action a consequence. consequence bore by those who act. you could be influenced, you could be swayed, but those around you serve no more than as advisors who speak what they believe in and hope you believe with them. in the end, whether you were affected or you stand your ground, your choice will always ultimately be, just your choice. perhaps, remember this when you make your choices, for none is to be blamed when something goes wrong, other than yourself.